Go the Extra Mile-There’s Not Too Much Traffic Here

In His famous Sermon on the Mount, Jesus set a standard that goes beyond our natural inclinations. He taught, “Whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him two.” (Matthew 5:41, KJV). In those times, Roman soldiers could force civilians, including Jews, to carry their armor for a mile. Jesus' call for believers to go the second mile wasn’t just about obedience—it was a powerful statement about generosity, service, and love. Going beyond what's required shows the true heart of a disciple.

Imagine the shock of Jesus' audience when He suggested this radical idea. The natural human response might have been, “No way am I doing more than what’s required!” Yet, Jesus set a higher standard—an invitation to embrace the opportunity to serve even when it's inconvenient. By going the extra mile, we rise above the world's expectations and display a love that reflects God’s character.

**Going the Second Mile: A Real-life Example 

As I was working on this very topic, a friend called, asking for help with a man who had fallen into addiction again. My friend had arranged for two men from a rehabilitation program to drive him 400 miles to a facility. After just five miles, the man stopped at a gas station, bought alcohol, and refused to continue the journey, becoming hostile. The two brothers tried their best to convince him, but he wouldn’t budge. Finally, they gave up and called my friend.

My friend and I drove to meet them, and with some strong words of encouragement, we convinced the man to get back into the car. The brothers continued the long drive—an 800-mile round trip—to help this man get the help he needed. Their willingness to "go the extra mile" (or in this case, several hundred miles) was not just about completing a task. It was about being part of God’s work in saving a life.

You may not be asked to make such a dramatic journey, but God will present opportunities in your life where going beyond what is required is necessary to fulfill His work.

**Three Ways to Be a "Second Miler" in Your Life

1.  Don’t Be a Clock Puncher

In many professions, people clock in and out, signaling the start and end of their workday. Ministry, however, is different. True ministry requires us to be available beyond the standard hours, as the needs of people don’t always fall between 9 and 5. While it’s important to have balance, it’s equally crucial to recognize that ministry is a calling, not just a job.

When we limit our service to strict schedules, we risk turning our calling into mere routine. Serving God should not be confined to time slots. Take, for example, young David. Chosen by King Saul to serve in his court, David’s faithfulness and wisdom were recognized: “David behaved himself wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him.” (1 Samuel 18:14). Even though Saul was erratic in his leadership, David’s loyalty and diligence reflected his commitment to serve God, not just to fulfill his earthly duties.

If we are too tied to the clock, we miss opportunities for going the extra mile. On the other hand, if we’re habitually late or slow, we never reach the point where extra effort can be offered. Discipline in time management and dedication to service are essential parts of the Christian work ethic.

1. Sometimes Going "By-the-Book" Can Hold You Back

Policies and procedures are necessary for order, but sometimes rigid adherence can prevent us from showing the mercy or flexibility needed in ministry. In one example, a ministry worker dealt with a student who relapsed into drug use. Rather than dismissing him immediately according to policy, the worker allowed him to sleep it off in his room. The next morning, after prayer and encouragement, the student repented and began a renewed path to recovery.

This was a moment when strict rules could have closed the door to grace, but the worker chose to go beyond the regulations. God is bigger than our policy books, and His ways often exceed our understanding. 

We see this in the story of Eldad and Medad in Numbers 11. God distributed His Spirit among seventy leaders to help Moses, yet Eldad and Medad were not present at the Tabernacle. Despite not being physically there, the Spirit still rested on them, and they began to prophesy in the camp. When Joshua reported this irregularity to Moses, suggesting they be stopped, Moses wisely responded, “I wish that all the Lord’s people were prophets and that the Lord would put His Spirit on them all!” (Numbers 11:29).

Sometimes, being led by the Spirit means stepping outside of human-imposed boundaries to allow God to work in unexpected ways. Going the second mile may involve taking risks, showing compassion where judgment is expected, and trusting that God’s ways are higher than our own.

1. Look for Opportunities to Catch People Doing Something Right

As ministry workers, it’s easy to focus on correcting mistakes or addressing problems. However, being a "second miler" means looking for moments when people are doing the right thing—especially when they go beyond expectations. Encouraging and recognizing these moments fosters growth and discipleship.

Consider the story of Abraham’s servant who was tasked with finding a wife for Isaac. When he stopped at a well, Rebekah came out and not only offered him water but also volunteered to water all ten of his camels. This act of kindness and diligence confirmed to the servant that she was the right wife for Isaac. Rebekah's willingness to go beyond what was asked of her revealed her character.

In your ministry or daily life, be on the lookout for "Rebekahs"—those who are going the extra mile without being asked. Recognize their efforts, encourage them, and let them know that their willingness to serve is noticed and appreciated.

**Conclusion: Walking the Road Less Traveled

Going the extra mile often means walking a road that few choose to travel. The path may feel lonely at times, but it’s on this road that we experience small and large miracles. When we serve others in this way, not only do we reflect Christ’s love, but we also open doors for others to follow our example.

In your journey of faith, whether you’re serving in ministry, at home, or in your workplace, take the opportunities God gives you to go beyond what’s required. It might be inconvenient, costly, or time-consuming, but in the end, the rewards far outweigh the sacrifices. The impact of going the second mile can change lives—perhaps even your own.

Remember, when you go the extra mile, you’re walking in the footsteps of Jesus.

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